loving conflict

Cultivating a love for conflict as a practice of being loving in conflict is the work of loving conflict.

A somatic relearning of our bodies that welcomes conflict is easier said than done, and in our dyadic relationships we might find ourselves stuck in the same cycles, unable to break through to the next phase that conflict is here to teach us.

As a guide, a witness, a third party, I offer another perspective that holds the belief that both parties are here to aid each other in their healing work. That the spirit of the relationship is calling for the spirit of each person to grow a greater capacity to love and live vibrantly in their purpose.

Using practices from the work that reconnects, restorative justice circles, conocimiento, non-violent communication, divination with the book of changes along with bazi astrology, through the lens of relationship ecology,

I mix these modalities as an emergent facilitator for those who traverse the many phases of partnership, friendship, lovership, collaboration, and life building.

If you are interested in a get to know you call with no commitment or investment outside of you and your partner’s willing presence, continue on to…

the process